Senior Trip

The big blue charter bus hissed and sighed as it eased to a stop in the huge parking lot at Myra’s Country Kitchen and Olde Town Store. The comfort food restaurant chain was a popular stop for travelers, and the one just off the interstate outside Memphis was where members of the Flowing Water Retirement Community were disembarking.

The group of 24 older adults had left Atlanta before dawn on their way to Branson, Missouri, for a quick getaway. Once there, they’d enjoy an evening of entertainment courtesy of Yakov Smirnoff, and partake of all the chicken and waffles they cared to eat (plus limitless refills of iced tea) during his live performance. The next day would be a “play day” where they were free to take advantage of everything the Ozark town had to offer.

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Each year Flowing Water sponsored similar trips, all designed to give residents a chance to get a change of scenery. Not all took advantage of such junkets, though.

Carter Shelton had lived at the complex for the past three years. He was friendly – Carter greeted everyone with a smile – but in many ways he didn’t fit in.

Flowing Water provided daily lunches, exercise classes, movie nights – the activity director, Midge Masters, did a terrific job ensuring that the residents had access to more than just the comforts of home. It was, indeed, a good place to live.

Carter, however, kept mostly to himself and steered clear of group activities.

He had moved into a second floor apartment three years earlier, and spent most mornings walking the grounds, putting in earbuds and listening to hard rock music or podcasts about comic books.

While the rest of the residents – many in their late 70s and older – looked and dressed the part of “senior citizens,” Carter was partial to graphic T-shirts and bright-colored sneakers.

It wasn’t often you’d see a 75-year-old-man wearing a black, AC/DC tank top, silky basketball shorts and neon running shoes, but if you did, chances are it was Carter Shelton.

So, for Carter to agree to take a 650-mile road trip to see a 1980s-era comedian … well, it seemed out of character.

“Guys, we have about an hour for lunch and shopping, so don’t rush, but don’t dawdle,” Midge said as the group stepped off the bus and started making their way toward the entrance. “We ordered ahead and they’re expecting us, so we should all get our food pretty quick. We have tables set up in the meeting room. Be sure to check your number on the itinerary and the one on the table – that’s where you’ll sit.”

Carter hung back and carefully eyed the cars that were coming into the lot.

“Carter, you should probably go on in,” Madge said.

“Nah,” he said. “I’m just gonna wait on Betty.”

Although Midge had never engaged Carter in “deep” conversation, he often spoke of Betty, who he claimed to be an old flame from high school. He said his stay at Flowing Waters would be temporary and that she would “come pick me up one day.”

“You’re a long way from home, Carter,” Midge said. “And it’s been three years … don’t you think Betty would’ve come and gotten you by now?”

Carter smiled.

“Well,” he said, “she’s been busy, and we had to make sure the timing was right. During high school, while most of the kids went to the Gulf of Mexico for their senior trip, me and her drove up here to Memphis. Went to Beale Street, went to New Daisy Theatre and saw B.B. King – had the best time. B.B. ain’t with us anymore, but I suspect Beale Street is still Beale Street and there’s no place like the home of the Blues. Plus, there’s a rumor that Keith Richards is gonna play there tonight. She wouldn’t miss that.”

Midge had always enjoyed hearing Carter tell stories of his “wild” youth and adventures with Betty, but it was heartbreaking to think he had come all this way to meet someone who wasn’t going to show up.

Betty, his wife, had passed away, which was the reason he moved into Flowing Waters in the first place. Midge never brought up the subject, though; she didn’t feel it was her place.

“Carter,” she said. “Let’s just go inside. Here’s what I’ll do … I’ll leave your name with the hostess and if Betty shows up …”

“When …” Carter interjected.

When Betty shows up, she’ll come inside and ask for you, won’t she? When she does, they’ll call your name and you can meet her up front. Deal?”

Carter nodded.

“OK,” he said. “But I’m sure she’ll be here soon. I texted her about an hour ago and she said she was on her way.”

Midge gave Carter a gentle pat on the back and just as she opened the door to the restaurant, a convertible pulled up – with the silver-haired driver waving with one hand and honking the horn with the other.

“There’s my ride!” shouted Carter, who jogged toward the silver Ford Mustang.

Midge fast-stepped behind Carter, who had already leaned over, kissed the driver, and moved to the passenger side of the vehicle.

“Midge, meet Betty,” Carter said as Midge looked on with surprise.

“Well,” Betty said, “I’m actually the ‘other’ Betty. I hooked up with a guy I met in college here in Memphis and this old reprobate ran off and got married to another woman named Betty. I guess he has a type. Anyway, now that he’s a widower and I’m a widow, it’s probably time we finished what we started back in high school.”

Carter strapped on his seatbelt and winked at Midge.

“She bought the gas, so I reckon I’ll have to buy the grass, just like the old days,” Carter said with a laugh. “Ya’ll have a fun time in Branson. Tell the gang we’ll see ‘em back in Atlanta – unless we don’t. The last time we were in Memphis we lost track of time.”

Back in his backyard

Nathan Rourke will be behind center for the BC Lions as they face Winnipeg.

One of the benefits of no longer covering live local sports is I’ve been able to devote more attention to the Canadian Football League, which I’ve been passionate about since the early 1970s.

Although I cast my lot with the Hamilton Tiger-Cats long ago, I’m one of those guys who finds something to like about every club. I want my team to win, of course, but I want the whole league to be successful. You know … a rising tide lifts all boats.

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So, when things go bad for the Ti-Cats (with Saturday’s 47-22 beatdown by Edmonton, Hamilton is 2-8 and its season is circling the drain) there’s always something – or someone – to celebrate.

The BC Lions host the Winnipeg Blue Bombers tonight, and I’m celebrating the return of Nathan Rourke to the CFL.

Rourke, of course, is the Victoria, British Columbia, native who threw for 28 touchdowns and 4,035 yards during his first stint with the Lions in 2021-22; he won the CFL Most Outstanding Canadian Award in 2022.

Since then, the two-time Jon Cornish Trophy winner (while quarterbacking the Ohio Bobcats) spent time with the Jacksonville Jaguars (2023), New England Patriots (2023), New York Giants (2024) and Atlanta Falcons (2024). He tried to parlay his CFL success into a career in the National Football League, and I genuinely hoped he’d stick the landing on football’s biggest stage. Unfortunately, the 26-year-old never saw action in a regular season game and was cut by Atlanta on August 11.

TSN’s Farhan Lalji reports that Rourke has signed a three-year deal with BC that will make him the league’s highest paid player in 2025 and 2026. He’ll earn $250,000 for playing the rest of this season, $749,200 next year, and $815,000 in the final year of his contract.

If another NFL opportunity comes along, it’ll have to wait.

“I wanted to be in a situation where I felt like I could move up,” Rourke said following Wednesday’s practice. “And there’s so few opportunities in the league. I think in ‘23 we can look back on that and see it as a success. I moved up, I was able to go to a team where I was the second guy, and that was an improvement from the beginning of the year. But (in 2024) there were tough situations with coaching changes and kind of moving around … I never really got settled.

“I was missing some reps and missing some opportunities.”

With starting quarterback Vernon Adams Jr. nursing an injury, his former team north of the U.S. border offered a new opportunity after a job with the Falcons lasted just 10 days.

“I felt like going to another (NFL) team would be a hard ask, and maybe not the best use of my time,” Adams said. “After that point, the suddenness of it felt like it was maybe best to start exploring other options if the NFL thing didn’t work out.”

America’s loss is Canada’s gain – again.

“The biggest thing is trying to get readjusted to the offense,” he said. “Obviously, I know this one. I learned it at some point, I was here for two years. But then this is also my fifth offense this year, so I’m going to have to forget a bunch of stuff to make room for this stuff. I love the Canadian game … I tell all my American teammates who have never seen the motions and stuff like that, it’s such a fun game, and there’s so much action to it.”

While I’m an American fan who admires the game from afar, it’s exciting to see a Canadian native excel at the QB position. The CFL has been in search of a national superstar signal caller ever since Hamilton native Russ Jackson retired in 1969.

But while Rourke is certainly a favorite son, Adams is hardly a throwaway. The 31-year-old (who played collegiately at Eastern Washington and Oregon) is second in the league in passing yards with 2,469 and tied for second in most passing TDs with 14. Back in February he signed a contract extension through 2026 after a 2023 season that saw him lead the league with 4,769 yards and connect on 31 touchdown tosses.

He was traded to the Lions from Montreal after Rourke suffered a foot sprain in 2022, and two years later Rourke has come in as Adams tries to work through an injury to his right knee.

“I’ve got the most amount of respect for V.A.,” Rourke said. “He’s such a pro. Ever since I’ve known him, when he came in for me in 2022, he was a pro. Everything he’s done up until this point, he’s been a pro about it. He’s that type of leader and type of person that I aspire to be in the locker room. He’s been great. I think the timing is good in terms of him not being 100 percent.

“We need him for this playoff run that we’re hopefully about to go on. We’re gonna need everyone healthy so I think let him rest and see what happens. I think he’s done a fantastic job, and I respect the hell out of him for it.”

BC coach Rick Campbell – who on Friday named Rourke the starter for tonight’s contest – dismisses any kind of quarterback controversy. With his team 5-4 – one point behind West leader Saskatchewan but losers of three consecutive games – the more quality QBs, the better.

“We’re looking out for the BC Lions, and we want to do what’s best for the BC Lions football team,” Campbell said. “And to have those two guys, both of them, on the same team, is an amazing thing.”

Once Adams returns to 100 percent, it’ll be interesting to see how things ultimately play out in Vancouver. I mean, having two elite quarterbacks vying for playing time is untenable long-term.

If Rourke decides to pursue another NFL job in 2025, Adams should return. If Rourke stays, Adams would go elsewhere (I’d love to see him in Hamilton – and not as a wideout like the Ti-Cats tried to make him in 2018).

But for now, I’m looking forward to watching Rourke play the three down game. And he’s looking forward to it as well, with no regrets about his NFL experience.

“I felt like I made the best decision for myself at the time,” Rourke said. “Obviously looking back, it was not what I thought it was going to be in terms of an opportunity or a competition. But that’s the nature of this profession and you know, it’s come full circle now.”

Buddy and the Beast

What was it Patton once said … “Fatigue makes cowards of us all?” Buddy could relate. After hours of battle, he had reached the point where victory no longer seemed to matter – nor did survival, really.

His own lack of sleep and the animal’s seemingly constant motion had finally worn him down. In this battle of man versus beast, the beast was winning – and had almost won. And that was fine because one way or another, this all had to end.

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Before entering the arena, he had been warned. He was too old, too weak, too unprepared to take on something that was simply too, too much to handle. But in his mind, he knew he still had one more fight in him. Well, he thought he did, anyway.

After all, he had done this before – many times, in fact. And there had been myriad occasions when he was so exhausted he could barely hold his head up. Yet somehow, he endured. Day after day, night after night, he tried to break what appeared to be an unbreakable foe.

Had he thought of giving up?

Sure. Honorable or otherwise, sometimes defeat is inevitable.

But he never tapped out, and because he didn’t, his enemies of the past ultimately became his friends for life. And that’s why these battles were irresistible.

So, here he was again, sprawled on the ground and devoid of energy. Coming towards him was the creature – razor-sharp teeth glistening … its eyes bright with mischief. If the man just gave up, perhaps it would all be over.

Yet, he didn’t.

Instead, Buddy reached out with the rope, waved it wildly, and coerced the predator into clamping down on it.

The critter shook it vigorously, growled, and then collapsed.

Why?

The man had no clue.

It seemed to have boundless energy, only to stop briefly and abruptly start back again. Thus, Buddy knew the reprieve would be ever so brief.

The opportunity to take flight was there; he could run, he could hide – he could even race outside, get into his car, and drive away.

Instead, he crawled over to the puppy, kissed it on the head, and managed a smile.

Some things are always worth fighting for, no matter how tiring.